The look in the eyes conveys the message first. When the thermal energy in a relationship rises, one will encourage the other to ignite the passions.

Assuming mutual acceptance to the overture, how the fire burns is important. Does it burn with such intensity that it will soon burn out? Or does it burn in such a way that the fire is never quenched?

Much of that choice is surprisingly left to one individual. The question arises, is the choice made by the party of the first part, or the second? There is not an absolute way to know for sure in the heat of the moment.

Based on one of my favorite songs of all time, the 1968 version of Light My Fire by Jose Feliciano.

Don